Sunday 10 June 2012

A Guide to Living Like a Modern Gypsy


The Attitude
The essential attitude: to relinquish control by surrendering to any circumstance that may arise.  Once I overcame the need to adhere to a plan, our travels became a joyful adventure. I used to make a point of adventuring on my weekends off and made an effort to explore new places; I haven't done much exploring lately, as I felt I needed to play catch-up in spending time with Bu.  We've recently had the opportunity to have sleep-overs in the comfort of the homes of our family and friends- we've had early morning visits and we're currently camping in a beautiful, serene Saskatchewan Provincial Park.  I've started to blossom since I've connected with the amazing people in my life, and I have more tracks to make.  I'm fortunate to have time to do so, as I feel an importance in not only sharing with my tribe members, but also in demonstrating this kinship for my daughter.  Long story short, I feel a person's attitude can greatly affect an outcome of a journey... and feeling connected to what kind of experience you seek will impact where you go.


The Bag
I have a bag of essentials with me that has all of Bu's vital items like snacks, a reusable cup, an extra outfit, her harmonica and other toys that are her favorite but are also easily transported -like a few crayons and paper.  Other essential items: water, wallet, sunscreen, hand salve, toothbrushes, a shampoo bar, a couple of scarves, tinted moisturizer, mascara, lip balm, hair clips, my cell phone, fruit and seeds, water bottles, essential oils, cloth sun-hats and a pashmina shawl that can double as a blanket for Bu.  In my car, I keep sandals, rubber boots, cowboy boots, jackets and a small make up bag so we can transform our outfits with ease and be ready for any occasion. I also have a cooler, blanket and speakers.


The Place
Wherever your heart tells you to go.  We are currently out of our home for a month due to renovations (Thanks to the Touchdown For Dreams Campaign) and have time to go wherever feels right at any given time.  We've had the good fortune to have unique interactions with some amazing people!  I've gone wherever Bu seems to feel comfortable, which is where I am also at peace ;)  My parents set up their trailer in Blackstrap Provincial Park, across the highway from our home.  We can stop by and pick up items and still relax in the gorgeous surroundings of trees and a lake.  Bu is a happy camper and would prefer to remain outdoors so we play outside all day; it is such an enriching experience that has befallen us.


The Gratitude
My heart is full and I feel blessed to exist.  I had been so stressed out over so many things before letting life flow in this calming direction. I'm living simply but comfortably- as close to a Romani lifestyle as I can hope to achieve.  Happiness abound.